there IS hope.

Most days I sign into here and I often glance over how people have ‘found’ my blog. Its often by googling something, and then they land here. And often the things people type are relating to surviving abuse, depression, church, mental health, self harm amongst other things.

Sometimes people land at Fragmentz by typing something like ‘is there hope …’. Is there hope for … a self harmer? A depressive? A survivor?

My response to those people is YES. LOTS. And I really hope by stumbling across this blog that those people who are typing those things are able to find hope in this space.

And that those people are also able to find hope in the life they are living.

Because there is hope. Maybe it is small grains of sand shaped hope, and maybe it might be something bigger. Maybe it is something very quiet, or something very loud.

But however big or small, quiet or loud there IS hope.

Whatever it is you are facing, whatever storm you are in the middle of, keep hanging on to hope.

If you are unwell with depression or other mental health issues: there IS hope.

If you a survivor of abuse and/or rape: there IS hope.

If you battle with self harm: there IS hope.

If you struggle with suicidal ideations: there IS hope.

If you are fighting to stay above the water, for whatever reason: there IS hope.

I believe this for you, if you are a Christian. I believe this for you if you are not a Christian.

However some of the searches people have typed and found my blog with, related to battling issues and Jesus. I truly believe Jesus still loves you, whether you are depressed or not. Whether your self harm or not. Whether you battle with God or not. Whether you are a survivor or not.

He loves you. And has a hope and a future for you.

One of the most important bible verses when it comes to hope, and my own life, is this:

Jeremiah 29 verse 11 –  ‘I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out—plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for’ (The Message)

Please know, wherever you are, whoever you are and whoever you believe in,

you are precious. 

You are valuable. 

You are beautiful. 

There is a hope. 

There is a future. 

As I sat writing this blog, the last verse of a poem I wrote called ‘the whisper’  came into my mind. It is this :

As the years pass by, the scars never go, but begin to get lighter
She sits down, and watches life go by, and the sun getting brighter
And as she confronts all of the things in her life she fears
In the stillness the previous whisper of ‘I love you’ is all she hears.

I dont pretend there is an easy way for life to happen. There isnt. Life is tough. But please know and live in hope that brighter days can exist. That even though the memories never go, they can be lighter, things can be brighter.

Please know you precious, your are valuable, you are beautiful. 

You are loved. Loved. LOVED. 


6 thoughts on “there IS hope.

  1. I needed to read this today.

    I hven’t asked this of another blogger for such a long time, but wondered if you would consider having this cross-posted on eChurch, with a link etc for wider readership

    No worries, if you’d rather not, I’ll link to it in any case.

  2. Pingback: there IS hope | eChurch Blog

  3. When all hope seems lost and all that we see in our heads are clouds, it’s people like you that convinces us to keep looking for that ray of sunshine.

    Thank you for this inspiring message. It is amazing how a search mechanism like Google can save lives when in the right hands.

  4. I’m always fascinated by how people find my blog, and your post is excellent. All the people searching for hope, searching to see if Jesus still loves them even if they are depressed/self harm and so on, I hope they find posts like these and realise that he does indeed love them, loves all of us, no matter what we are going through.

  5. Through bad and good
    Through sad and tough
    Frustrating devastating
    Life can be rough

    Just because she smiles
    Just because she frowns
    Doesnt mean she’s happy or sad
    Doent mean she feeling bad

    An expression on a face
    Keeps you guessing
    Give a little smile
    It can be a blessing

    Talk like you have everything
    Even when you have nothing
    Give a hug if it’s all you can give
    Appreciate everything
    That anyone can give

    So keep a smile on your face
    Carry no heartache
    Cry no tears
    Look to the sky
    And don’t ask god why

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